Monthly Archives: July 2014

Grief Revisited

DSC03768 Dr. Victor Sierpina is one of the excellent columnists of the Galveston County Daily News.    His description of the grief process, based in part on Good Grief by Granger Westfield, goes beyond a shorter list of stages.   The first four stages, shock, discussed in his first  column on this subject, are:

  • Shock
  • Emotional pain
  • Depression and loneliness,
  • Physical distress

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The next six include the possibility of :

  1.  Panic
  2. Guilt
  3. Anger
  4. Resistance to life without the lost person
  5. Gradually becoming hopeful again
  6. Struggle to affirm reality

This was illuminating to me as I come upon the 50th anniversary of my mother’s death.    I consider all that pertains to her to be in a special set of connections in my brain.   It took me at least three and a half decades to not break into tears when I mentioned her, or somebody else mentioned her to me, even though I did not feel sad in general, and would quickly recover my composure.

 

 

Wallet Fixing

DSC03729 My old wallet, not leather, recently began to lose its plastic coating, and I quite like its ID holder, so:

DSC03731 I fixed it with black duct tape.

The plant is rosemary, according to its label.  It looks different from other rosemary which I have seen around here.   The rosemary which I have usually seen looks more like an evergreen tree, and grows quite large.

Brain, The Complete Mind by Michael S Sweeney

A National Geographic Book. DSC03644 This book, Brain, The Complete Mind, How It Develops, How It Works, and How To Keep It Sharp, by Michael S Sweeney, covers some of the new neuroscience discoveries, and includes, among much more information, the following. DSC03645 It describes some of the major neurotransmitters.  According to an online search of “How many neurotransmitters are there?”  there may be from at least 60 to over 110 neurotransmitters. DSC03646  On this page we learn something about how Helen Keller managed, and the thoughts of St. Thomas Aquinas on aspects of the working mind. DSC03647 Scattered throughout the book are these sections on “Staying Sharp”.  This book has many other helpful features. DSC03648 Near this sections is one describing how people think, in order to, for example, follow a recipe. DSC03649 This page describes how nuns age. DSC03650  This nicely illustrated book does indeed give “you greater insight into how your mind operates and how you can keep it sharp”.